I am doing laundry and I get to thinking how I want to show my children that they are respected and loved and I want them to be assured that they bring so much joy to my life. I know that with the daily chaos parents go thru between disaplining their children and what not, sometimes its hard to really see what lifes all about for our children. Its hard to work around that daily frustration of hmm how should i react to the way Logans acting, should i ignore this negative behavior or should i disapline. So i decided that I am going to focus more on the good,positive things Logan does, and try to ignore the negative, none important things Logan does ( aka things that are not that big of a deal).
I am also going to challenge myself to smile more often at my children. I want Logan to know I am happy with the positive things he is doing. And I want him to know he is loved!
I know exactly what you mean, sometimes i think i focus too much on the good and dont discipline enoough though, because Dane has some good days,and then some REALLY bad days! haha :)
ReplyDeleteenjoy those babies!